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"content": "6 ESSENTIAL RULES FOR DATING<br /><br />Let's face it: Dating can be a little intimidating, and it has nothing to do with confidence. Even if you are completely comfortable with yourself and are a good conversationalist, the idea of putting your best self forward and being vulnerable with a stranger who may become the love of your life is, well, daunting. If you're in the market for a relationship—whether it's a casual fling or something long-term—consider this your guide to modern dating.<br /><br />We've compiled the six essential rules when it comes to finding what you're looking for, so put your stress on the shelf and enjoy yourself when you're on the dating circuit.<br /><br />(01 of 06)<br />Put Yourself Out There<br /><br />We know meeting people can be stressful, but try to overcome any negative emotions you have surrounding dating because the more you put yourself out there, the better your chances are to meet someone you really like. If you're not into dating apps, try a different avenue, like asking your friends to fix you up. You could even scope the scene at your favorite places, which increases your odds of finding someone with shared interests. So if you love yoga, see if you find anyone in the class attractive and talk to them afterward.<br /><br /><br />02 of 06<br />Keep an Open Mind<br /><br />Being open-minded is perhaps the most important rule on this list. You may think you have a type, which has inadvertently closed you off to meeting someone you could fall in love with. Just because someone has different interests than you or isn't your typical \"go-to\" doesn't mean that you should automatically write them off as someone you wouldn't be interested in. After all, what do you have to lose by giving someone a chance?<br /><br /><br />03 of 06<br />Stay Safe<br /><br />Another thing to keep in mind: your safety is the most important when dating. If you don't feel comfortable or safe, do not worry about staying to be polite. Definitely get out of there. If you're meeting up with someone from a dating app (a stranger), we recommend letting a friend know where you are, meeting your date in a public place, and staying clearheaded, so that you can make good choices from start to finish.<br /><br />If you want to take the edge off a first date, suggest a place you've been to before so that you at least feel comfortable in your surroundings. <br /><br />04 of 06<br />Set Your Own Pace<br /><br />When you're dating someone new, it's important to move the relationship forward at your own pace. We don't necessarily subscribe to society's long-standing and unspoken rule of waiting a specific amount of time before being intimate with your new partner, but we do believe that waiting is okay if you aren't completely sure that intimacy is something you're ready for yet.<br /><br /><br />05 of 06<br />Remember: Forming Connections Takes Time<br /><br />Speaking of setting your own pace, take some of the stress off yourself and remember that finding the perfect person for you won’t happen overnight. So rather than rushing the process and settling on a partner who doesn’t meet all of your needs, it’s in your best interest to put in the time it takes to date more people and up your chances of finding the one who makes you happiest. <br /><br /><br />06 of 06<br />Maintain a Positive Attitude<br /><br />We get it, you can't be positive all the time. However, when it comes to dating, try your best to keep any negativity at bay because if you go on a first date thinking it will be a disaster, it probably will be. Think of it this way: If you go out for drinks with someone you weren't that into, it was just two or so hours of your life, right? However, if you're on your way to a first date thinking, \"I'm going to laugh a lot, order my favorite cocktail, and have a great time even if there's no second date,\" you'll have plenty of fun. The power of positive thinking is definitely real.<br /><br /><br />Jessica from DatingJourney<br /><br />Read also:<br /><br />17 Relationship Goals Couples Should Have: <a href=\"https://medium.com/p/17-relationship-goals-couples-should-have-dating-advices-87bcd65351c5\" target=\"_blank\">https://medium.com/p/17-relationship-goals-couples-should-have-dating-advices-87bcd65351c5</a><br /><br />He Doesn't Really Want The Perfect Woman: <a href=\"https://medium.com/p/he-doesnt-really-want-the-perfect-woman-dating-advices-b4023e332130\" target=\"_blank\">https://medium.com/p/he-doesnt-really-want-the-perfect-woman-dating-advices-b4023e332130</a><br /><br />Why Men Pull Away: <a href=\"https://medium.com/p/why-men-pull-away-common-mistakes-2021-dating-advices-a9dd101212d\" target=\"_blank\">https://medium.com/p/why-men-pull-away-common-mistakes-2021-dating-advices-a9dd101212d</a>",
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"content": "Did you share a special connection with a guy?<br />And despite his recent actions, you know he felt it too?<br /><br />Well, I believe that's a relationship worth fighting for. And the good news is I may have a way for you to rekindle things with your ex.<br /><br />Because no matter what a man claims, he wants that beautiful connection back too.<br /><br />But he won't let himself act on those feelings when he's trying to move on.<br /><br />As a dating coach and relationship expert, here's what I've noticed about this situation...<br /><br />A man who is closed off to a relationship with you believes the last chapter has been written.<br /><br />He envisions the story of your relationship as having ended; the last page of the last chapter already written.<br /><br />To get him back, you must change that mental framework.<br /><br /><br />If you're in a hurry and you need to skip ahead, here's a video explaining the technique that has resulted in hundreds of spontaneous testimonials from women all across the world.<br /><br />Here's the problem with us men as I see it.<br /><br />We try to think our way through romantic relationships. That's why \"logic\" gets in the way of reconnecting with your ex.<br /><br /><br /><br />[Logic tells him he tried it and things didn't work out.]<br /><br />To succeed, you have to bypass his logic in order to reach his heart.<br /><br />You have to connect with his emotional desires directly.<br /><br />This requires the activation of a deeper kind of wisdom that is often silenced by rational, conscious thought.<br /><br />You want to re-open the story of your relationship.<br /><br />Your job is to change the way he frames the relationship in his mind.<br /><br /><br /><br />[This opens his mind to the possibility that the last chapter has not yet been written.]<br /><br />This is not something you rush into.<br /><br />You don't start and end this process in a single conversation. Rather, you simply plant a seed in his mind.<br /><br />That seed can be something as simple as a question. You use suggestive language to plant a question in his mind.<br /><br />Why? Because the human mind cannot ignore a question of this sort.<br /><br />Our minds try to answer questions by evaluating various possible answers.<br /><br /><br />That's all it takes to open his mind to the possibility that what he thought was the end of your story was actually only the beginning.<br /><br /><br /><br />[This is where things get interesting.]<br /><br />One option is to phrase it like this:<br /><br />\"I find myself wondering if the last chapter of our relationship has actually been written. I don't know why that question keeps popping into my mind.\"<br /><br />Say it in a casual tone and without any pause afterward for him to reply. It's just something amusing you notice about your own stream of consciousness.<br /><br /><br /><br />[Saying this raises the question in his mind.]<br /><br />His subconscious will be influenced by that question even if he tries to consciously ignore the possibility.<br /><br />The way suggestion works, there are no negatives.<br /><br />If I tell you, \"Your leg no longer hurts,\" the impact on the subconscious mind is thoughts, feelings, and imagery representing the word \"hurts.\"<br /><br />The \"no longer\" part gets ignored.<br /><br />That's why hypnotists use only positive language for the suggestions they want to instill in someone's mind.<br /><br />Hypnotists say, \"Notice how comfortable and relaxed your leg becomes with each passing moment.\"<br /><br />They don't say \"Notice how your leg stopped hurting.\"<br /><br /><br /><br />[Plant the Idea in His Mind...by Creating Space]<br /><br />Raising the question of what could happen between the two of you (in the future) causes his mind to automatically fill that space.<br /><br />It's like the movie, Inception. If you haven't seen it, Inception is a movie about planting the seed of an idea in someone else's mind.<br /><br />They do so by entering someone's dreams through a special device that allows several people to share the same dream.<br /><br />In the movie, the \"architect\" of the dream creates a safe...like a metal box for keeping secret papers and valuables.<br /><br />Once that \"space\" is created, the dreamer unconsciously fills that safe with things they want to keep hidden, tucked safely away.<br /><br />It's an automatic unconscious instinct.<br /><br />That fictional plotline is based on the reality of how the subconscious mind works, as discovered through hundreds of years of refining hypnotic suggestion.<br /><br />Once his mind is open to the possibility of being loved by you again, he will start to question himself.<br /><br /><br />[He will wonder if he still has any feelings for you.]<br /><br />That question will cause him to crack open the door to his heart just enough to search for those feelings.<br /><br />This is what we were aiming for. This is the key that unlocks the next chapter.<br /><br /><br />[Unlock the Next Chapter of Your Relationship]<br /><br />Once a new page is turned, the story of your relationship can begin again.<br /><br />It's a blank page just begging to be written. And if you really want that new story to build toward a climax of joy and relationship bliss, I have a recommendation for you.<br /><br />It's a secret about the male mind. It's something even men do not understand about themselves.<br /><br />It's the one thing they crave more desperately than anything else.<br /><br />It's an instinctual drive he cannot ignore, and something few women know how to give.<br /><br /><br />It's the one thing men secretly want but could never tell you..<br />..watch this video: <a href=\"http://adfoc.us/18683578653377\" target=\"_blank\">http://adfoc.us/18683578653377</a>",
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"content": "Did you share a special connection with a guy?\nAnd despite his recent actions, you know he felt it too?\n\nWell, I believe that's a relationship worth fighting for. And the good news is I may have a way for you to rekindle things with your ex.\n\nBecause no matter what a man claims, he wants that beautiful connection back too.\n\nBut he won't let himself act on those feelings when he's trying to move on.\n\nAs a dating coach and relationship expert, here's what I've noticed about this situation...\n\nA man who is closed off to a relationship with you believes the last chapter has been written.\n\nHe envisions the story of your relationship as having ended; the last page of the last chapter already written.\n\nTo get him back, you must change that mental framework.\n\n\nIf you're in a hurry and you need to skip ahead, here's a video explaining the technique that has resulted in hundreds of spontaneous testimonials from women all across the world.\n\nHere's the problem with us men as I see it.\n\nWe try to think our way through romantic relationships. That's why \"logic\" gets in the way of reconnecting with your ex.\n\n\n\n[Logic tells him he tried it and things didn't work out.]\n\nTo succeed, you have to bypass his logic in order to reach his heart.\n\nYou have to connect with his emotional desires directly.\n\nThis requires the activation of a deeper kind of wisdom that is often silenced by rational, conscious thought.\n\nYou want to re-open the story of your relationship.\n\nYour job is to change the way he frames the relationship in his mind.\n\n\n\n[This opens his mind to the possibility that the last chapter has not yet been written.]\n\nThis is not something you rush into.\n\nYou don't start and end this process in a single conversation. Rather, you simply plant a seed in his mind.\n\nThat seed can be something as simple as a question. You use suggestive language to plant a question in his mind.\n\nWhy? Because the human mind cannot ignore a question of this sort.\n\nOur minds try to answer questions by evaluating various possible answers.\n\n\nThat's all it takes to open his mind to the possibility that what he thought was the end of your story was actually only the beginning.\n\n\n\n[This is where things get interesting.]\n\nOne option is to phrase it like this:\n\n\"I find myself wondering if the last chapter of our relationship has actually been written. I don't know why that question keeps popping into my mind.\"\n\nSay it in a casual tone and without any pause afterward for him to reply. It's just something amusing you notice about your own stream of consciousness.\n\n\n\n[Saying this raises the question in his mind.]\n\nHis subconscious will be influenced by that question even if he tries to consciously ignore the possibility.\n\nThe way suggestion works, there are no negatives.\n\nIf I tell you, \"Your leg no longer hurts,\" the impact on the subconscious mind is thoughts, feelings, and imagery representing the word \"hurts.\"\n\nThe \"no longer\" part gets ignored.\n\nThat's why hypnotists use only positive language for the suggestions they want to instill in someone's mind.\n\nHypnotists say, \"Notice how comfortable and relaxed your leg becomes with each passing moment.\"\n\nThey don't say \"Notice how your leg stopped hurting.\"\n\n\n\n[Plant the Idea in His Mind...by Creating Space]\n\nRaising the question of what could happen between the two of you (in the future) causes his mind to automatically fill that space.\n\nIt's like the movie, Inception. If you haven't seen it, Inception is a movie about planting the seed of an idea in someone else's mind.\n\nThey do so by entering someone's dreams through a special device that allows several people to share the same dream.\n\nIn the movie, the \"architect\" of the dream creates a safe...like a metal box for keeping secret papers and valuables.\n\nOnce that \"space\" is created, the dreamer unconsciously fills that safe with things they want to keep hidden, tucked safely away.\n\nIt's an automatic unconscious instinct.\n\nThat fictional plotline is based on the reality of how the subconscious mind works, as discovered through hundreds of years of refining hypnotic suggestion.\n\nOnce his mind is open to the possibility of being loved by you again, he will start to question himself.\n\n\n[He will wonder if he still has any feelings for you.]\n\nThat question will cause him to crack open the door to his heart just enough to search for those feelings.\n\nThis is what we were aiming for. This is the key that unlocks the next chapter.\n\n\n[Unlock the Next Chapter of Your Relationship]\n\nOnce a new page is turned, the story of your relationship can begin again.\n\nIt's a blank page just begging to be written. And if you really want that new story to build toward a climax of joy and relationship bliss, I have a recommendation for you.\n\nIt's a secret about the male mind. It's something even men do not understand about themselves.\n\nIt's the one thing they crave more desperately than anything else.\n\nIt's an instinctual drive he cannot ignore, and something few women know how to give.\n\n\nIt's the one thing men secretly want but could never tell you..\n..watch this video: http://adfoc.us/18683578653377",
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And the good news is I may have a way for you to rekindle things with your ex.<br /><br />Because no matter what a man claims, he wants that beautiful connection back too.<br /><br />But he won't let himself act on those feelings when he's trying to move on.<br /><br />As a dating coach and relationship expert, here's what I've noticed about this situation...<br /><br />A man who is closed off to a relationship with you believes the last chapter has been written.<br /><br />He envisions the story of your relationship as having ended; the last page of the last chapter already written.<br /><br />To get him back, you must change that mental framework.<br /><br /><br />If you're in a hurry and you need to skip ahead, here's a video explaining the technique that has resulted in hundreds of spontaneous testimonials from women all across the world.<br /><br />Here's the problem with us men as I see it.<br /><br />We try to think our way through romantic relationships. That's why \"logic\" gets in the way of reconnecting with your ex.<br /><br /><br /><br />[Logic tells him he tried it and things didn't work out.]<br /><br />To succeed, you have to bypass his logic in order to reach his heart.<br /><br />You have to connect with his emotional desires directly.<br /><br />This requires the activation of a deeper kind of wisdom that is often silenced by rational, conscious thought.<br /><br />You want to re-open the story of your relationship.<br /><br />Your job is to change the way he frames the relationship in his mind.<br /><br /><br /><br />[This opens his mind to the possibility that the last chapter has not yet been written.]<br /><br />This is not something you rush into.<br /><br />You don't start and end this process in a single conversation. Rather, you simply plant a seed in his mind.<br /><br />That seed can be something as simple as a question. You use suggestive language to plant a question in his mind.<br /><br />Why? Because the human mind cannot ignore a question of this sort.<br /><br />Our minds try to answer questions by evaluating various possible answers.<br /><br /><br />That's all it takes to open his mind to the possibility that what he thought was the end of your story was actually only the beginning.<br /><br /><br /><br />[This is where things get interesting.]<br /><br />One option is to phrase it like this:<br /><br />\"I find myself wondering if the last chapter of our relationship has actually been written. I don't know why that question keeps popping into my mind.\"<br /><br />Say it in a casual tone and without any pause afterward for him to reply. It's just something amusing you notice about your own stream of consciousness.<br /><br /><br /><br />[Saying this raises the question in his mind.]<br /><br />His subconscious will be influenced by that question even if he tries to consciously ignore the possibility.<br /><br />The way suggestion works, there are no negatives.<br /><br />If I tell you, \"Your leg no longer hurts,\" the impact on the subconscious mind is thoughts, feelings, and imagery representing the word \"hurts.\"<br /><br />The \"no longer\" part gets ignored.<br /><br />That's why hypnotists use only positive language for the suggestions they want to instill in someone's mind.<br /><br />Hypnotists say, \"Notice how comfortable and relaxed your leg becomes with each passing moment.\"<br /><br />They don't say \"Notice how your leg stopped hurting.\"<br /><br /><br /><br />[Plant the Idea in His Mind...by Creating Space]<br /><br />Raising the question of what could happen between the two of you (in the future) causes his mind to automatically fill that space.<br /><br />It's like the movie, Inception. If you haven't seen it, Inception is a movie about planting the seed of an idea in someone else's mind.<br /><br />They do so by entering someone's dreams through a special device that allows several people to share the same dream.<br /><br />In the movie, the \"architect\" of the dream creates a safe...like a metal box for keeping secret papers and valuables.<br /><br />Once that \"space\" is created, the dreamer unconsciously fills that safe with things they want to keep hidden, tucked safely away.<br /><br />It's an automatic unconscious instinct.<br /><br />That fictional plotline is based on the reality of how the subconscious mind works, as discovered through hundreds of years of refining hypnotic suggestion.<br /><br />Once his mind is open to the possibility of being loved by you again, he will start to question himself.<br /><br /><br />[He will wonder if he still has any feelings for you.]<br /><br />That question will cause him to crack open the door to his heart just enough to search for those feelings.<br /><br />This is what we were aiming for. This is the key that unlocks the next chapter.<br /><br /><br />[Unlock the Next Chapter of Your Relationship]<br /><br />Once a new page is turned, the story of your relationship can begin again.<br /><br />It's a blank page just begging to be written. And if you really want that new story to build toward a climax of joy and relationship bliss, I have a recommendation for you.<br /><br />It's a secret about the male mind. It's something even men do not understand about themselves.<br /><br />It's the one thing they crave more desperately than anything else.<br /><br />It's an instinctual drive he cannot ignore, and something few women know how to give.<br /><br /><br />It's the one thing men secretly want but could never tell you..<br />..watch this video: <a href=\"http://adfoc.us/18683578653377\" target=\"_blank\">http://adfoc.us/18683578653377</a> ",
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And the good news is I may have a way for you to rekindle things with your ex.\n\nBecause no matter what a man claims, he wants that beautiful connection back too.\n\nBut he won't let himself act on those feelings when he's trying to move on.\n\nAs a dating coach and relationship expert, here's what I've noticed about this situation...\n\nA man who is closed off to a relationship with you believes the last chapter has been written.\n\nHe envisions the story of your relationship as having ended; the last page of the last chapter already written.\n\nTo get him back, you must change that mental framework.\n\n\nIf you're in a hurry and you need to skip ahead, here's a video explaining the technique that has resulted in hundreds of spontaneous testimonials from women all across the world.\n\nHere's the problem with us men as I see it.\n\nWe try to think our way through romantic relationships. That's why \"logic\" gets in the way of reconnecting with your ex.\n\n\n\n[Logic tells him he tried it and things didn't work out.]\n\nTo succeed, you have to bypass his logic in order to reach his heart.\n\nYou have to connect with his emotional desires directly.\n\nThis requires the activation of a deeper kind of wisdom that is often silenced by rational, conscious thought.\n\nYou want to re-open the story of your relationship.\n\nYour job is to change the way he frames the relationship in his mind.\n\n\n\n[This opens his mind to the possibility that the last chapter has not yet been written.]\n\nThis is not something you rush into.\n\nYou don't start and end this process in a single conversation. Rather, you simply plant a seed in his mind.\n\nThat seed can be something as simple as a question. You use suggestive language to plant a question in his mind.\n\nWhy? Because the human mind cannot ignore a question of this sort.\n\nOur minds try to answer questions by evaluating various possible answers.\n\n\nThat's all it takes to open his mind to the possibility that what he thought was the end of your story was actually only the beginning.\n\n\n\n[This is where things get interesting.]\n\nOne option is to phrase it like this:\n\n\"I find myself wondering if the last chapter of our relationship has actually been written. I don't know why that question keeps popping into my mind.\"\n\nSay it in a casual tone and without any pause afterward for him to reply. It's just something amusing you notice about your own stream of consciousness.\n\n\n\n[Saying this raises the question in his mind.]\n\nHis subconscious will be influenced by that question even if he tries to consciously ignore the possibility.\n\nThe way suggestion works, there are no negatives.\n\nIf I tell you, \"Your leg no longer hurts,\" the impact on the subconscious mind is thoughts, feelings, and imagery representing the word \"hurts.\"\n\nThe \"no longer\" part gets ignored.\n\nThat's why hypnotists use only positive language for the suggestions they want to instill in someone's mind.\n\nHypnotists say, \"Notice how comfortable and relaxed your leg becomes with each passing moment.\"\n\nThey don't say \"Notice how your leg stopped hurting.\"\n\n\n\n[Plant the Idea in His Mind...by Creating Space]\n\nRaising the question of what could happen between the two of you (in the future) causes his mind to automatically fill that space.\n\nIt's like the movie, Inception. If you haven't seen it, Inception is a movie about planting the seed of an idea in someone else's mind.\n\nThey do so by entering someone's dreams through a special device that allows several people to share the same dream.\n\nIn the movie, the \"architect\" of the dream creates a safe...like a metal box for keeping secret papers and valuables.\n\nOnce that \"space\" is created, the dreamer unconsciously fills that safe with things they want to keep hidden, tucked safely away.\n\nIt's an automatic unconscious instinct.\n\nThat fictional plotline is based on the reality of how the subconscious mind works, as discovered through hundreds of years of refining hypnotic suggestion.\n\nOnce his mind is open to the possibility of being loved by you again, he will start to question himself.\n\n\n[He will wonder if he still has any feelings for you.]\n\nThat question will cause him to crack open the door to his heart just enough to search for those feelings.\n\nThis is what we were aiming for. 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"content": "[WOULD YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU KNEW IT WASN'T GOING TO LAST?]<br /><br />Many of us, if given a crystal ball, would take one look at the last days of a love affair and swear off that relationship completely.<br /><br />There’s no point in falling for someone if it’s going to end THAT badly.<br /><br />Or is there?<br /><br />It goes without saying that breakups are bad. Divorce is even worse.<br /><br />When a relationship ends, you may experience depression, anxiety, insomnia, skin flare-ups, aches and pains, drastic weight loss or gain, or illness.<br /><br />One cardiologist reported seeing a greater incidence of heart attacks in people who’d recently broken up.<br /><br />Breaking up can literally break your heart.<br /><br /><br /><br />[BUT HAVE BREAKUPS BEEN GIVEN A BAD RAP?]<br /><br />Is it really true that the only worthwhile relationships are those that last forever?<br /><br />Ty Tashiro and Patricia Frazier from the University of Minnesota believe that we’ve overlooked the possibility of achieving \"positive life changes following relationship breakups.\"<br /><br />In a 2003 study of broken-hearted undergraduates, they found evidence that breakups spurred personal growth, particularly in women.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />[HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW?]<br /><br />You broke up with someone you really liked.<br /><br />Determined to prove that he made a huge mistake by letting you go, you embarked on a campaign to become a \"new you.\"<br /><br />You started an exercise program, bought new clothes, and filled your life with a whirl of social activities.<br /><br />Even though thoughts of your ex intruded at times, you forcibly kept your mind on the future and your amazing life ahead.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />[YOU REFUSED TO LET HIM MAKE YOU SAD ANY MORE.]<br /><br />It’s very possible that this new life you created for yourself is better than the old one in every way.<br /><br />Which means that the breakup wasn’t a bad thing, but rather something good.<br /><br />Breaking up can change your life for the better.<br /><br />In the breakups=bad and relationships=good equation, it’s easy to forget that not all relationships have a positive impact on your life.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />[HE MAY NOT BE THE BEST INFLUENCE.]<br /><br />Even though you may love someone very much and treasure his presence in your life, he may not be the best influence.<br /><br />Having a partner who likes eating pizza, drinking beer, and watching television on his time off can impact your health, if you choose to join him in those activities.<br /><br />A partner who is often angry or negative can increase your stress levels.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />[YOUR PARTNER CAN ALSO INFLUENCE WHETHER OR NOT YOU PURSUE YOUR DREAMS.]<br /><br />If he thinks your career goals are silly or unrealistic, or if he thinks it’s a waste of money to go back to school, you may put your dreams on the back burner.<br /><br />It’s hard to see all the ways in which your choice of partner is affecting your life until the relationship ends and you’re free again.<br /><br />As scary as being on your own may seem, being single gives you the chance to rediscover who you are.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />[THE SILVER LINING]<br /><br />Rediscovering yourself is part of the secret for getting over a breakup.<br /><br />You can eat what you want, listen to your own music, and watch what you want on television, even if no one else shares your tastes.<br /><br />You can spend your free time exactly as you like. You don’t have to change for anyone.<br /><br />No wonder Tashiro and Frazier found that women grow so much after a breakup.<br /><br />Relationships, as wonderful as they feel, can be limiting. Finding yourself single again can be self-empowering.<br /><br />Perhaps breakups aren’t the demon everyone has made them out to be.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />[PERHAPS BREAKUPS ARE THE WISEST TEACHERS]<br /><br />You might even say that it’s worth getting into a relationship that doesn’t last, because of the self-knowledge you’ll gain from the experience.<br /><br />Even if you had a crystal ball, would you still say yes to those relationships that ended badly?<br /><br />Can you think of any benefits you experienced from breaking up that you wouldn’t have got any other way?<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Single Again? ...<br /><br />... Not all breakups ruin your life. 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"content": "[WOULD YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU KNEW IT WASN'T GOING TO LAST?]\n\nMany of us, if given a crystal ball, would take one look at the last days of a love affair and swear off that relationship completely.\n\nThere’s no point in falling for someone if it’s going to end THAT badly.\n\nOr is there?\n\nIt goes without saying that breakups are bad. Divorce is even worse.\n\nWhen a relationship ends, you may experience depression, anxiety, insomnia, skin flare-ups, aches and pains, drastic weight loss or gain, or illness.\n\nOne cardiologist reported seeing a greater incidence of heart attacks in people who’d recently broken up.\n\nBreaking up can literally break your heart.\n\n\n\n[BUT HAVE BREAKUPS BEEN GIVEN A BAD RAP?]\n\nIs it really true that the only worthwhile relationships are those that last forever?\n\nTy Tashiro and Patricia Frazier from the University of Minnesota believe that we’ve overlooked the possibility of achieving \"positive life changes following relationship breakups.\"\n\nIn a 2003 study of broken-hearted undergraduates, they found evidence that breakups spurred personal growth, particularly in women.\n\n\n\n\n[HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW?]\n\nYou broke up with someone you really liked.\n\nDetermined to prove that he made a huge mistake by letting you go, you embarked on a campaign to become a \"new you.\"\n\nYou started an exercise program, bought new clothes, and filled your life with a whirl of social activities.\n\nEven though thoughts of your ex intruded at times, you forcibly kept your mind on the future and your amazing life ahead.\n\n\n\n\n[YOU REFUSED TO LET HIM MAKE YOU SAD ANY MORE.]\n\nIt’s very possible that this new life you created for yourself is better than the old one in every way.\n\nWhich means that the breakup wasn’t a bad thing, but rather something good.\n\nBreaking up can change your life for the better.\n\nIn the breakups=bad and relationships=good equation, it’s easy to forget that not all relationships have a positive impact on your life.\n\n\n\n\n[HE MAY NOT BE THE BEST INFLUENCE.]\n\nEven though you may love someone very much and treasure his presence in your life, he may not be the best influence.\n\nHaving a partner who likes eating pizza, drinking beer, and watching television on his time off can impact your health, if you choose to join him in those activities.\n\nA partner who is often angry or negative can increase your stress levels.\n\n\n\n\n[YOUR PARTNER CAN ALSO INFLUENCE WHETHER OR NOT YOU PURSUE YOUR DREAMS.]\n\nIf he thinks your career goals are silly or unrealistic, or if he thinks it’s a waste of money to go back to school, you may put your dreams on the back burner.\n\nIt’s hard to see all the ways in which your choice of partner is affecting your life until the relationship ends and you’re free again.\n\nAs scary as being on your own may seem, being single gives you the chance to rediscover who you are.\n\n\n\n\n[THE SILVER LINING]\n\nRediscovering yourself is part of the secret for getting over a breakup.\n\nYou can eat what you want, listen to your own music, and watch what you want on television, even if no one else shares your tastes.\n\nYou can spend your free time exactly as you like. You don’t have to change for anyone.\n\nNo wonder Tashiro and Frazier found that women grow so much after a breakup.\n\nRelationships, as wonderful as they feel, can be limiting. Finding yourself single again can be self-empowering.\n\nPerhaps breakups aren’t the demon everyone has made them out to be.\n\n\n\n\n[PERHAPS BREAKUPS ARE THE WISEST TEACHERS]\n\nYou might even say that it’s worth getting into a relationship that doesn’t last, because of the self-knowledge you’ll gain from the experience.\n\nEven if you had a crystal ball, would you still say yes to those relationships that ended badly?\n\nCan you think of any benefits you experienced from breaking up that you wouldn’t have got any other way?\n\n\n\n\n\nSingle Again? ...\n\n... Not all breakups ruin your life. Some breakups make your life.\n\nSo, if you’ve found yourself single again, use this time to learn everything you can about yourself, your tastes, and the kind of relationship you want next.\n\nBy the way, one of the best ways to get over a breakup is to fall in love with someone new.\n\nA relationship that makes your heart sing is (in my opinion) the remedy for a broken heart.\n\nTo help with that, I’d like to share a secret with you.\n\nWatch this video: http://adfoc.us/18683578653377",
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"content": "<br />[WOULD YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU KNEW IT WASN'T GOING TO LAST?]<br /><br />Many of us, if given a crystal ball, would take one look at the last days of a love affair and swear off that relationship completely.<br /><br />There’s no point in falling for someone if it’s going to end THAT badly.<br /><br />Or is there?<br /><br />It goes without saying that breakups are bad. 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"content": "\n[WOULD YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU KNEW IT WASN'T GOING TO LAST?]\n\nMany of us, if given a crystal ball, would take one look at the last days of a love affair and swear off that relationship completely.\n\nThere’s no point in falling for someone if it’s going to end THAT badly.\n\nOr is there?\n\nIt goes without saying that breakups are bad. Divorce is even worse.\n\nWhen a relationship ends, you may experience depression, anxiety, insomnia, skin flare-ups, aches and pains, drastic weight loss or gain, or illness.\n\nOne cardiologist reported seeing a greater incidence of heart attacks in people who’d recently broken up.\n\nBreaking up can literally break your heart.\n\n\n\n[BUT HAVE BREAKUPS BEEN GIVEN A BAD RAP?]\n\nIs it really true that the only worthwhile relationships are those that last forever?\n\nTy Tashiro and Patricia Frazier from the University of Minnesota believe that we’ve overlooked the possibility of achieving \"positive life changes following relationship breakups.\"\n\nIn a 2003 study of broken-hearted undergraduates, they found evidence that breakups spurred personal growth, particularly in women.\n\n\n\n\n[HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW?]\n\nYou broke up with someone you really liked.\n\nDetermined to prove that he made a huge mistake by letting you go, you embarked on a campaign to become a \"new you.\"\n\nYou started an exercise program, bought new clothes, and filled your life with a whirl of social activities.\n\nEven though thoughts of your ex intruded at times, you forcibly kept your mind on the future and your amazing life ahead.\n\n\n\n\n[YOU REFUSED TO LET HIM MAKE YOU SAD ANY MORE.]\n\nIt’s very possible that this new life you created for yourself is better than the old one in every way.\n\nWhich means that the breakup wasn’t a bad thing, but rather something good.\n\nBreaking up can change your life for the better.\n\nIn the breakups=bad and relationships=good equation, it’s easy to forget that not all relationships have a positive impact on your life.\n\n\n\n\n[HE MAY NOT BE THE BEST INFLUENCE.]\n\nEven though you may love someone very much and treasure his presence in your life, he may not be the best influence.\n\nHaving a partner who likes eating pizza, drinking beer, and watching television on his time off can impact your health, if you choose to join him in those activities.\n\nA partner who is often angry or negative can increase your stress levels.\n\n\n\n\n[YOUR PARTNER CAN ALSO INFLUENCE WHETHER OR NOT YOU PURSUE YOUR DREAMS.]\n\nIf he thinks your career goals are silly or unrealistic, or if he thinks it’s a waste of money to go back to school, you may put your dreams on the back burner.\n\nIt’s hard to see all the ways in which your choice of partner is affecting your life until the relationship ends and you’re free again.\n\nAs scary as being on your own may seem, being single gives you the chance to rediscover who you are.\n\n\n\n\n[THE SILVER LINING]\n\nRediscovering yourself is part of the secret for getting over a breakup.\n\nYou can eat what you want, listen to your own music, and watch what you want on television, even if no one else shares your tastes.\n\nYou can spend your free time exactly as you like. You don’t have to change for anyone.\n\nNo wonder Tashiro and Frazier found that women grow so much after a breakup.\n\nRelationships, as wonderful as they feel, can be limiting. Finding yourself single again can be self-empowering.\n\nPerhaps breakups aren’t the demon everyone has made them out to be.\n\n\n\n\n[PERHAPS BREAKUPS ARE THE WISEST TEACHERS]\n\nYou might even say that it’s worth getting into a relationship that doesn’t last, because of the self-knowledge you’ll gain from the experience.\n\nEven if you had a crystal ball, would you still say yes to those relationships that ended badly?\n\nCan you think of any benefits you experienced from breaking up that you wouldn’t have got any other way?\n\n\n\n\n\nSingle Again? ...\n\n... Not all breakups ruin your life. Some breakups make your life.\n\nSo, if you’ve found yourself single again, use this time to learn everything you can about yourself, your tastes, and the kind of relationship you want next.\n\nBy the way, one of the best ways to get over a breakup is to fall in love with someone new.\n\nA relationship that makes your heart sing is (in my opinion) the remedy for a broken heart.\n\nTo help with that, I’d like to share a secret with you.\n\nWatch this video: http://adfoc.us/18683578653377",
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