A small tool to view real-world ActivityPub objects as JSON! Enter a URL
or username from Mastodon or a similar service below, and we'll send a
request with
the right
Accept
header
to the server to view the underlying object.
{
"@context": "https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams",
"type": "OrderedCollectionPage",
"orderedItems": [
{
"type": "Create",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1471108255781490698",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "Check this beautiful bag for everyone at <br />Centuryhackland.redbubble.com<br /><a href=\"https://www.minds.com/search?f=top&t=all&q=fashion\" title=\"#fashion\" class=\"u-url hashtag\" target=\"_blank\">#fashion</a> ",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1471108255781490698",
"published": "2023-02-11T11:38:59+00:00",
"attachment": [
{
"type": "Document",
"url": "https://cdn.minds.com/fs/v1/thumbnail/1471107696802402305/xlarge/",
"mediaType": "image/jpeg",
"height": 1000,
"width": 750
}
],
"source": {
"content": "Check this beautiful bag for everyone at \nCenturyhackland.redbubble.com\n#fashion ",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1471108255781490698/activity"
},
{
"type": "Create",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1470562719621976081",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "<a href=\"https://link.medium.com/mVB0lVS1hxb\" target=\"_blank\">https://link.medium.com/mVB0lVS1hxb</a>",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1470562719621976081",
"published": "2023-02-09T23:31:13+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "https://link.medium.com/mVB0lVS1hxb",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1470562719621976081/activity"
},
{
"type": "Create",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1470203617926451206",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "Checkout out latest news <br /><a href=\"https://link.medium.com/4mqnkW1ngxb\" target=\"_blank\">https://link.medium.com/4mqnkW1ngxb</a> ",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1470203617926451206",
"published": "2023-02-08T23:44:17+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "Checkout out latest news \nhttps://link.medium.com/4mqnkW1ngxb ",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1470203617926451206/activity"
},
{
"type": "Create",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1469763177733427207",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": " Cats Facts <br /><br />Watch a cat perform some impossible move <a href=\"https://youtube.com/shorts/m4EkTgEWpUg?feature=share\" target=\"_blank\">https://youtube.com/shorts/m4EkTgEWpUg?feature=share</a><br /><br />",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1469763177733427207",
"published": "2023-02-07T18:34:07+00:00",
"source": {
"content": " Cats Facts \n\nWatch a cat perform some impossible move https://youtube.com/shorts/m4EkTgEWpUg?feature=share\n\n",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1469763177733427207/activity"
},
{
"type": "Announce",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1216501589071876096",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "Godson Romeo, B.A<br /><br />Regardless of what individuals advise you, cutting off ties is an extraordinary method to keep pace in a futile way of life – moving in the blazes of a severed tie is incredible inspiration to work quicker and continue to push forward. Shockingly, at times you need to return and revamp a wrecked extension for the better great. Here are a couple of approaches to revamp a messed up relationship. <br /><br />1. Start a Friendly and Polite Dialog. <br /><br />At the point when you start a discussion, a basic \"Howdy\" or speedy welcome is sufficient. Simply the way that you sent them a message might be sufficient, however, contingent upon how they've hindered you, you may have to likewise specify what your identity is. This is all that requires to be said, and don't utter a word else (or send more than one all out message) until the individual in question reacts, or you will put on a show of being irritating. <br /><br />2. Be Clear About Your Intentions. <br /><br />Once there's a discourse open, use it everything being equal; be open, in advance, and legitimate about what you need. This will motion toward the other party that you regard the person in question and help modify the trust that was recently broken. Never anticipate that anyone should guess what you might be thinking, in light of the fact that the truth is, no one can, regardless of the amount you center around sending contemplations. <br /><br />3. Love is All You Need. <br /><br />The explanation you're modifying a messed up relationship is on the grounds that you either need something or care about the individual. Regardless of whether you need something, center around the other individual, not what you need. In the event that you show that you care about the person in question, the individual will be more responsive to causing you. <br /><br />4. Construct a Bridge, and Get Over It. <br /><br />Drop whatever issues you used to have before – it's not the past any longer. You can talk about the issues you had in your past endeavor at a relationship, yet staying will just exacerbate the situation. Overcome any issues among you, and get over your crack with a briskness. <br /><br />5. Be Honest (In a Nice Way). <br /><br />Continuously be straightforward, in any event, when you oppose this idea. Misdirection might not have broken your relationship, yet it's absolutely not going to fix it. Simply ensure you're neither cautious nor hostile, and in the event that you can't keep it common, shut up. <br /><br />6. Conceptualizing <br /><br />Include the other individual in your endeavors to revamp your relationship. On the off chance that the person is talking, the individual is at any rate keen on hearing what you need to say, put the onus on them and request their commitment. <br /><br />7. Delivery Control. <br /><br />Continuously make sure to disconnect yourself from the outcomes throughout everyday life. On the off chance that you put every one of your eggs into this present individual's container, their dismissal will break you. All things considered, characterize yourself and how you respond, however don't anticipate your optimal outcome. <br /><br />8. Apologize. <br /><br />There are not many clashes in life that can't be settled with an expression of remorse. In any event, it'll offer you a chance to pardon yourself and proceed onward, regardless of whether the other party isn't intrigued. <br /><br />9. Assume Liability. <br /><br />Continuously acknowledge duty, regardless of whether you don't trust you were to blame. The other individual unmistakably trusts you are, and tolerating obligation will help you overcome any barrier between your insights. <br /><br />10. Try not to Push Buttons. <br /><br />Recall that both you and the other party have animosity toward one another (or if nothing else used to). You know there are sure triggers that get to that individual – be a grown-up and try not to press those catches, regardless of how gravely you're enticed. <br /><br />11. Think Positive. <br /><br />It's consistently a smart thought to think positive throughout everyday life. Regardless of whether things don't work out, you can ponder the following experience. Continue to look forward, and you'll ooze certainty, which is alluring to others. This will attract the other individual to ask why the person in question doesn't have a relationship with you. <br /><br />Arrive at My Goal! <br /><br />⌄ Scroll down to keep understanding article ⌄ <br /><br />12. Be Genuine. <br /><br />Continuously be the genuine you, regardless of what occurs. You'd preferably bomb your way over prevail as another person. Try not to profess to be what the other individual needs – it is anything but an opposition, and you'd be shocked at how much trustworthiness will open entryways for you throughout everyday life. <br /><br />13. Authorize Your Boundaries. <br /><br />You have individual limits, and you're making a special effort to not violate other people groups' limits so you merit regard also. Make certain to obligingly and delicately remind the other individual at whatever point they've violated a limit you set up. Yet, be certain it's one you've both recognized exists so you're not erroneously blaming anybody for intersection a line the person in question didn't know was there. <br /><br />14. Continue To direct the Conversation. <br /><br />Regardless of where the discussion goes, attempt to keep it pushing toward your objectives. On the off chance that the discussion is working out positively, welcome the other party to another discussion or meeting later on. Something else, ask that person for whatever it was you reached the person in question for in any case. <br /><br />15. In some cases You Have to Let Go. <br /><br />Regardless of your best aims, there's a possibility the other individual essentially doesn't have any desire to reconnect. In the event that the person in question doesn't react or appear to be forceful, forget about it. There are billions of individuals on the planet, and there's definitely no motivation to squander your energy on one who doesn't care for you. <br /><br />Reconstructing a messed up relationship is troublesome – the two players need to confront the ill will and doubt that divided you in any case. In case you're hoping to remake a wrecked relationship from quite a while ago, reconnect with the individual through text, email, or on the web. On the off chance that the individual in question reacts, there might be interest. If not, you have the conclusion you need to proceed onward.<br />",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1216501589071876096",
"published": "2021-03-10T21:42:59+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "Godson Romeo, B.A\n\nRegardless of what individuals advise you, cutting off ties is an extraordinary method to keep pace in a futile way of life – moving in the blazes of a severed tie is incredible inspiration to work quicker and continue to push forward. Shockingly, at times you need to return and revamp a wrecked extension for the better great. Here are a couple of approaches to revamp a messed up relationship. \n\n1. Start a Friendly and Polite Dialog. \n\nAt the point when you start a discussion, a basic \"Howdy\" or speedy welcome is sufficient. Simply the way that you sent them a message might be sufficient, however, contingent upon how they've hindered you, you may have to likewise specify what your identity is. This is all that requires to be said, and don't utter a word else (or send more than one all out message) until the individual in question reacts, or you will put on a show of being irritating. \n\n2. Be Clear About Your Intentions. \n\nOnce there's a discourse open, use it everything being equal; be open, in advance, and legitimate about what you need. This will motion toward the other party that you regard the person in question and help modify the trust that was recently broken. Never anticipate that anyone should guess what you might be thinking, in light of the fact that the truth is, no one can, regardless of the amount you center around sending contemplations. \n\n3. Love is All You Need. \n\nThe explanation you're modifying a messed up relationship is on the grounds that you either need something or care about the individual. Regardless of whether you need something, center around the other individual, not what you need. In the event that you show that you care about the person in question, the individual will be more responsive to causing you. \n\n4. Construct a Bridge, and Get Over It. \n\nDrop whatever issues you used to have before – it's not the past any longer. You can talk about the issues you had in your past endeavor at a relationship, yet staying will just exacerbate the situation. Overcome any issues among you, and get over your crack with a briskness. \n\n5. Be Honest (In a Nice Way). \n\nContinuously be straightforward, in any event, when you oppose this idea. Misdirection might not have broken your relationship, yet it's absolutely not going to fix it. Simply ensure you're neither cautious nor hostile, and in the event that you can't keep it common, shut up. \n\n6. Conceptualizing \n\nInclude the other individual in your endeavors to revamp your relationship. On the off chance that the person is talking, the individual is at any rate keen on hearing what you need to say, put the onus on them and request their commitment. \n\n7. Delivery Control. \n\nContinuously make sure to disconnect yourself from the outcomes throughout everyday life. On the off chance that you put every one of your eggs into this present individual's container, their dismissal will break you. All things considered, characterize yourself and how you respond, however don't anticipate your optimal outcome. \n\n8. Apologize. \n\nThere are not many clashes in life that can't be settled with an expression of remorse. In any event, it'll offer you a chance to pardon yourself and proceed onward, regardless of whether the other party isn't intrigued. \n\n9. Assume Liability. \n\nContinuously acknowledge duty, regardless of whether you don't trust you were to blame. The other individual unmistakably trusts you are, and tolerating obligation will help you overcome any barrier between your insights. \n\n10. Try not to Push Buttons. \n\nRecall that both you and the other party have animosity toward one another (or if nothing else used to). You know there are sure triggers that get to that individual – be a grown-up and try not to press those catches, regardless of how gravely you're enticed. \n\n11. Think Positive. \n\nIt's consistently a smart thought to think positive throughout everyday life. Regardless of whether things don't work out, you can ponder the following experience. Continue to look forward, and you'll ooze certainty, which is alluring to others. This will attract the other individual to ask why the person in question doesn't have a relationship with you. \n\nArrive at My Goal! \n\n⌄ Scroll down to keep understanding article ⌄ \n\n12. Be Genuine. \n\nContinuously be the genuine you, regardless of what occurs. You'd preferably bomb your way over prevail as another person. Try not to profess to be what the other individual needs – it is anything but an opposition, and you'd be shocked at how much trustworthiness will open entryways for you throughout everyday life. \n\n13. Authorize Your Boundaries. \n\nYou have individual limits, and you're making a special effort to not violate other people groups' limits so you merit regard also. Make certain to obligingly and delicately remind the other individual at whatever point they've violated a limit you set up. Yet, be certain it's one you've both recognized exists so you're not erroneously blaming anybody for intersection a line the person in question didn't know was there. \n\n14. Continue To direct the Conversation. \n\nRegardless of where the discussion goes, attempt to keep it pushing toward your objectives. On the off chance that the discussion is working out positively, welcome the other party to another discussion or meeting later on. Something else, ask that person for whatever it was you reached the person in question for in any case. \n\n15. In some cases You Have to Let Go. \n\nRegardless of your best aims, there's a possibility the other individual essentially doesn't have any desire to reconnect. In the event that the person in question doesn't react or appear to be forceful, forget about it. There are billions of individuals on the planet, and there's definitely no motivation to squander your energy on one who doesn't care for you. \n\nReconstructing a messed up relationship is troublesome – the two players need to confront the ill will and doubt that divided you in any case. In case you're hoping to remake a wrecked relationship from quite a while ago, reconnect with the individual through text, email, or on the web. On the off chance that the individual in question reacts, there might be interest. If not, you have the conclusion you need to proceed onward.\n",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1250063123960479744/activity",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
]
},
{
"type": "Announce",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1216502377211375616",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "How To Make A Relationship Actually Work: 9 Rules To Follow<br /><br />By Godson Romeo<br /><br />Expert review by Godson Romeo B.A, <br /><br />Relationships aren't easy, but far too many couples throw in the towel on their relationship prematurely, only to repeat the same dysfunctional patterns in their next relationship. The truth is, most couples are capable of thriving and lasting long term if they're both committed to working on it. Regardless of whether you're in a 50-day or a 50-year relationship, here's how to make relationships actually work:<br /><br />1. Accept conflict as normal.<br /><br />Perfection exists only in Hollywood. Disagreements happen. Unless you're embroiled in severe problems (i.e., unfaithfulness, abuse, addictions, legal problems, or violence), don't throw away a relationship because you've hit a rough patch. Trust and commitment deepen as you travel through storms together.<br /><br />2. Grow yourself up emotionally.<br /><br />Most people, even very \"good\" people, have some dysfunctional behaviors that are destructive to themselves and others. Some of the most common ones are defensiveness, poor communication skills, and lacking emotional intelligence. You probably intuitively have somewhat of a sense of where your areas for improvement are, and if you don't, try asking for some feedback from your partner, close friends, or even exes. (Yes, depending on where you're at emotionally with them, reconnecting with an ex to talk about your strengths and weaknesses can actually be a very helpful practice.) Don't be afraid to acknowledge that you've got room for growth. Everyone does.<br /><br />3. Give each other space.<br /><br /><br /><br />Reset Your Gut<br /><br />Even people in happy, loving relationships need alone time. Healthy couples are able to spend time away from each other, working on their own goals, spending time with their friends and hobbies, and just doing their own thing. Don't be worried if your partner asks for space or wants some nights to themselves every now and then, and make sure you're also regularly taking time to focus on yourself. You should each be whole people with your own exciting lives, and you're choosing to share those lives with each other.<br /><br />4. Develop an \"I'm awesome\" attitude.<br /><br />You and only you determine your self-worth. Far too many people base their self-worth first on whether they have a partner and later on the success of the relationship they're in. But how you feel about yourself should have nothing to do with your relationship status, nor the whims and moods of your partner. It doesn't matter whether they stay or go or compliment or criticize you. Your self-esteem needs to be like nonstick cookware—a third-party opinion slides right off, whether good or bad.<br /><br />5. Take care of your own needs.<br /><br />You're an adult, not a child. As a result, you call the shots. Need a nap? Take it. Want ice cream? Have some. Want to go to the movies? Enjoy. In partnership, you can ask the other person to help you meet your needs. But, like you, they have their own needs and problems. They may say no. This is not a rejection. Instead, it's an invitation—to be self-reliant or reach out to your community (i.e., friends or family) for help. If you make one person your be-all and end-all, they will resent it. And so will you.<br /><br />6. Communicate boundaries.<br /><br />More relationships die from silence than violence. Do you bite your tongue when you're upset? Do you turn away from bad behavior? Do you nag instead of enforcing consequences? If you act \"compliant\" to keep the peace, you contribute to the inauthenticity of the relationship. Decide to forge a different path: Speak up. Say no. Express your needs. Create a truly open channel of communication with your partner. If you can't be honest without feeling guilty or feeling like it's going to start a big fight, it might not be the right relationship for you.<br /><br />7. Never reward bad behavior.<br /><br />Psychology may explain bad behavior, but it doesn't excuse it. Even if you understand why your partner sometimes does hurtful things to you, if they're not trying to change for the better, you need to draw a line. When you continue to spend time with them, laugh, have sex, and otherwise pretend that everything's OK, you're offering positive reinforcement that they don't actually need to change. Set some ground rules. Don't wait around for someone to change if they're not actively working on themselves now; you can't have a relationship with someone's \"potential.\"<br /><br />Relationships can be like old shoes—we stay in them even when they are no longer functional because they are comfortable. But comfort is rarely an indication of a life well-lived.<br /><br />8. Heed the wisdom of your internal voice.<br /><br />When your relationship is in crisis, it's natural to go to your friends for advice. But the symphony of opinions can sometimes drown out the only voice that matters—your own. Get quiet. Meditate. Pray. Clear mental space, so you can hear your intuition. Can this relationship be saved? Is it in your best interest? Are you being pushed to grow? Are you truly giving each other what you each need? Your heart will never fail you, so learn to listen.<br /><br />9. Flood it with affection.<br /><br />Relationships are supposed to be fun! And joyous, and warm, and filled with laughter and affection. People in long-term relationships tend to forget this over time, and that's why so many couples eventually break up because they believe the \"spark\" is gone.<br /><br />Make time to play together. Create an atmosphere of levity and positivity when you're together. Speak lovingly to each other, always. Hug each other, cuddle, and hold hands. These small things are what make relationships so wonderful in the first place, and keeping these loving practices alive is key to making a relationship work in the long run.<br /><br />",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1216502377211375616",
"published": "2021-03-10T21:46:07+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "How To Make A Relationship Actually Work: 9 Rules To Follow\n\nBy Godson Romeo\n\nExpert review by Godson Romeo B.A, \n\nRelationships aren't easy, but far too many couples throw in the towel on their relationship prematurely, only to repeat the same dysfunctional patterns in their next relationship. The truth is, most couples are capable of thriving and lasting long term if they're both committed to working on it. Regardless of whether you're in a 50-day or a 50-year relationship, here's how to make relationships actually work:\n\n1. Accept conflict as normal.\n\nPerfection exists only in Hollywood. Disagreements happen. Unless you're embroiled in severe problems (i.e., unfaithfulness, abuse, addictions, legal problems, or violence), don't throw away a relationship because you've hit a rough patch. Trust and commitment deepen as you travel through storms together.\n\n2. Grow yourself up emotionally.\n\nMost people, even very \"good\" people, have some dysfunctional behaviors that are destructive to themselves and others. Some of the most common ones are defensiveness, poor communication skills, and lacking emotional intelligence. You probably intuitively have somewhat of a sense of where your areas for improvement are, and if you don't, try asking for some feedback from your partner, close friends, or even exes. (Yes, depending on where you're at emotionally with them, reconnecting with an ex to talk about your strengths and weaknesses can actually be a very helpful practice.) Don't be afraid to acknowledge that you've got room for growth. Everyone does.\n\n3. Give each other space.\n\n\n\nReset Your Gut\n\nEven people in happy, loving relationships need alone time. Healthy couples are able to spend time away from each other, working on their own goals, spending time with their friends and hobbies, and just doing their own thing. Don't be worried if your partner asks for space or wants some nights to themselves every now and then, and make sure you're also regularly taking time to focus on yourself. You should each be whole people with your own exciting lives, and you're choosing to share those lives with each other.\n\n4. Develop an \"I'm awesome\" attitude.\n\nYou and only you determine your self-worth. Far too many people base their self-worth first on whether they have a partner and later on the success of the relationship they're in. But how you feel about yourself should have nothing to do with your relationship status, nor the whims and moods of your partner. It doesn't matter whether they stay or go or compliment or criticize you. Your self-esteem needs to be like nonstick cookware—a third-party opinion slides right off, whether good or bad.\n\n5. Take care of your own needs.\n\nYou're an adult, not a child. As a result, you call the shots. Need a nap? Take it. Want ice cream? Have some. Want to go to the movies? Enjoy. In partnership, you can ask the other person to help you meet your needs. But, like you, they have their own needs and problems. They may say no. This is not a rejection. Instead, it's an invitation—to be self-reliant or reach out to your community (i.e., friends or family) for help. If you make one person your be-all and end-all, they will resent it. And so will you.\n\n6. Communicate boundaries.\n\nMore relationships die from silence than violence. Do you bite your tongue when you're upset? Do you turn away from bad behavior? Do you nag instead of enforcing consequences? If you act \"compliant\" to keep the peace, you contribute to the inauthenticity of the relationship. Decide to forge a different path: Speak up. Say no. Express your needs. Create a truly open channel of communication with your partner. If you can't be honest without feeling guilty or feeling like it's going to start a big fight, it might not be the right relationship for you.\n\n7. Never reward bad behavior.\n\nPsychology may explain bad behavior, but it doesn't excuse it. Even if you understand why your partner sometimes does hurtful things to you, if they're not trying to change for the better, you need to draw a line. When you continue to spend time with them, laugh, have sex, and otherwise pretend that everything's OK, you're offering positive reinforcement that they don't actually need to change. Set some ground rules. Don't wait around for someone to change if they're not actively working on themselves now; you can't have a relationship with someone's \"potential.\"\n\nRelationships can be like old shoes—we stay in them even when they are no longer functional because they are comfortable. But comfort is rarely an indication of a life well-lived.\n\n8. Heed the wisdom of your internal voice.\n\nWhen your relationship is in crisis, it's natural to go to your friends for advice. But the symphony of opinions can sometimes drown out the only voice that matters—your own. Get quiet. Meditate. Pray. Clear mental space, so you can hear your intuition. Can this relationship be saved? Is it in your best interest? Are you being pushed to grow? Are you truly giving each other what you each need? Your heart will never fail you, so learn to listen.\n\n9. Flood it with affection.\n\nRelationships are supposed to be fun! And joyous, and warm, and filled with laughter and affection. People in long-term relationships tend to forget this over time, and that's why so many couples eventually break up because they believe the \"spark\" is gone.\n\nMake time to play together. Create an atmosphere of levity and positivity when you're together. Speak lovingly to each other, always. Hug each other, cuddle, and hold hands. These small things are what make relationships so wonderful in the first place, and keeping these loving practices alive is key to making a relationship work in the long run.\n\n",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1250063096136716288/activity",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
]
},
{
"type": "Create",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1223008345702178816",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "Meeting Of Psyches <br /><br />Word Tally: <br /><br />253 <br /><br />Rundown: <br /><br />With the present refined work strategies – remotely coordinating for instance – it is of foremost significance to guarantee that the gathering is beneficial and doesn't pass into a pointless exercise in futility. <br /><br />Care ought to be taken to control the procedures in a helpful and intriguing manner to guarantee full particip ... <br /><br />Catchphrases: <br /><br />minds <br /><br />Article Body: <br /><br />With the present complex work techniques – remotely coordinating for instance – it is of foremost significance to guarantee that the gathering is profitable and doesn't slip by into a pointless exercise in futility. <br /><br />Care ought to be taken to control the procedures in a valuable and intriguing manner to guarantee full support of the relative multitude of participants. All things considered, why bother holding a gathering where all anyone recollects is how exhausted they were!? <br /><br />Consider first what the point of the gathering is. Maybe you need to build up a thought, or take care of an issue, or figure out how to expand profitability. For more than one point a plan is likely a smart thought. <br /><br />On the off chance that you are not a decent host, find or utilize an expert who can coordinate the gathering and keep the 'stream' going. He may request that members thusly add to the subject making it really intriguing and more gainful. <br /><br />Tip partners or laborers may offer more to a more unusual posing inquiries since they would prefer not to be viewed as hesitant. Workplace issues don't become an integral factor with an outsider. <br /><br />Convey to the members well in advance what the target of the gathering is – send them the plan – and layout what you anticipate that they should contribute. <br /><br />During and after the gathering state the choices and ends that have been reached so everybody is exceptionally clear on the advancement being made. <br /><br />At last, convey a duplicate of the conversation to guarantee that there was without a doubt a 'meeting of psyches'.",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1223008345702178816",
"published": "2021-03-28T20:38:30+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "Meeting Of Psyches \n\nWord Tally: \n\n253 \n\nRundown: \n\nWith the present refined work strategies – remotely coordinating for instance – it is of foremost significance to guarantee that the gathering is beneficial and doesn't pass into a pointless exercise in futility. \n\nCare ought to be taken to control the procedures in a helpful and intriguing manner to guarantee full particip ... \n\nCatchphrases: \n\nminds \n\nArticle Body: \n\nWith the present complex work techniques – remotely coordinating for instance – it is of foremost significance to guarantee that the gathering is profitable and doesn't slip by into a pointless exercise in futility. \n\nCare ought to be taken to control the procedures in a valuable and intriguing manner to guarantee full support of the relative multitude of participants. All things considered, why bother holding a gathering where all anyone recollects is how exhausted they were!? \n\nConsider first what the point of the gathering is. Maybe you need to build up a thought, or take care of an issue, or figure out how to expand profitability. For more than one point a plan is likely a smart thought. \n\nOn the off chance that you are not a decent host, find or utilize an expert who can coordinate the gathering and keep the 'stream' going. He may request that members thusly add to the subject making it really intriguing and more gainful. \n\nTip partners or laborers may offer more to a more unusual posing inquiries since they would prefer not to be viewed as hesitant. Workplace issues don't become an integral factor with an outsider. \n\nConvey to the members well in advance what the target of the gathering is – send them the plan – and layout what you anticipate that they should contribute. \n\nDuring and after the gathering state the choices and ends that have been reached so everybody is exceptionally clear on the advancement being made. \n\nAt last, convey a duplicate of the conversation to guarantee that there was without a doubt a 'meeting of psyches'.",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1223008345702178816/activity"
},
{
"type": "Create",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1216502377211375616",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "How To Make A Relationship Actually Work: 9 Rules To Follow<br /><br />By Godson Romeo<br /><br />Expert review by Godson Romeo B.A, <br /><br />Relationships aren't easy, but far too many couples throw in the towel on their relationship prematurely, only to repeat the same dysfunctional patterns in their next relationship. The truth is, most couples are capable of thriving and lasting long term if they're both committed to working on it. Regardless of whether you're in a 50-day or a 50-year relationship, here's how to make relationships actually work:<br /><br />1. Accept conflict as normal.<br /><br />Perfection exists only in Hollywood. Disagreements happen. Unless you're embroiled in severe problems (i.e., unfaithfulness, abuse, addictions, legal problems, or violence), don't throw away a relationship because you've hit a rough patch. Trust and commitment deepen as you travel through storms together.<br /><br />2. Grow yourself up emotionally.<br /><br />Most people, even very \"good\" people, have some dysfunctional behaviors that are destructive to themselves and others. Some of the most common ones are defensiveness, poor communication skills, and lacking emotional intelligence. You probably intuitively have somewhat of a sense of where your areas for improvement are, and if you don't, try asking for some feedback from your partner, close friends, or even exes. (Yes, depending on where you're at emotionally with them, reconnecting with an ex to talk about your strengths and weaknesses can actually be a very helpful practice.) Don't be afraid to acknowledge that you've got room for growth. Everyone does.<br /><br />3. Give each other space.<br /><br /><br /><br />Reset Your Gut<br /><br />Even people in happy, loving relationships need alone time. Healthy couples are able to spend time away from each other, working on their own goals, spending time with their friends and hobbies, and just doing their own thing. Don't be worried if your partner asks for space or wants some nights to themselves every now and then, and make sure you're also regularly taking time to focus on yourself. You should each be whole people with your own exciting lives, and you're choosing to share those lives with each other.<br /><br />4. Develop an \"I'm awesome\" attitude.<br /><br />You and only you determine your self-worth. Far too many people base their self-worth first on whether they have a partner and later on the success of the relationship they're in. But how you feel about yourself should have nothing to do with your relationship status, nor the whims and moods of your partner. It doesn't matter whether they stay or go or compliment or criticize you. Your self-esteem needs to be like nonstick cookware—a third-party opinion slides right off, whether good or bad.<br /><br />5. Take care of your own needs.<br /><br />You're an adult, not a child. As a result, you call the shots. Need a nap? Take it. Want ice cream? Have some. Want to go to the movies? Enjoy. In partnership, you can ask the other person to help you meet your needs. But, like you, they have their own needs and problems. They may say no. This is not a rejection. Instead, it's an invitation—to be self-reliant or reach out to your community (i.e., friends or family) for help. If you make one person your be-all and end-all, they will resent it. And so will you.<br /><br />6. Communicate boundaries.<br /><br />More relationships die from silence than violence. Do you bite your tongue when you're upset? Do you turn away from bad behavior? Do you nag instead of enforcing consequences? If you act \"compliant\" to keep the peace, you contribute to the inauthenticity of the relationship. Decide to forge a different path: Speak up. Say no. Express your needs. Create a truly open channel of communication with your partner. If you can't be honest without feeling guilty or feeling like it's going to start a big fight, it might not be the right relationship for you.<br /><br />7. Never reward bad behavior.<br /><br />Psychology may explain bad behavior, but it doesn't excuse it. Even if you understand why your partner sometimes does hurtful things to you, if they're not trying to change for the better, you need to draw a line. When you continue to spend time with them, laugh, have sex, and otherwise pretend that everything's OK, you're offering positive reinforcement that they don't actually need to change. Set some ground rules. Don't wait around for someone to change if they're not actively working on themselves now; you can't have a relationship with someone's \"potential.\"<br /><br />Relationships can be like old shoes—we stay in them even when they are no longer functional because they are comfortable. But comfort is rarely an indication of a life well-lived.<br /><br />8. Heed the wisdom of your internal voice.<br /><br />When your relationship is in crisis, it's natural to go to your friends for advice. But the symphony of opinions can sometimes drown out the only voice that matters—your own. Get quiet. Meditate. Pray. Clear mental space, so you can hear your intuition. Can this relationship be saved? Is it in your best interest? Are you being pushed to grow? Are you truly giving each other what you each need? Your heart will never fail you, so learn to listen.<br /><br />9. Flood it with affection.<br /><br />Relationships are supposed to be fun! And joyous, and warm, and filled with laughter and affection. People in long-term relationships tend to forget this over time, and that's why so many couples eventually break up because they believe the \"spark\" is gone.<br /><br />Make time to play together. Create an atmosphere of levity and positivity when you're together. Speak lovingly to each other, always. Hug each other, cuddle, and hold hands. These small things are what make relationships so wonderful in the first place, and keeping these loving practices alive is key to making a relationship work in the long run.<br /><br />",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1216502377211375616",
"published": "2021-03-10T21:46:07+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "How To Make A Relationship Actually Work: 9 Rules To Follow\n\nBy Godson Romeo\n\nExpert review by Godson Romeo B.A, \n\nRelationships aren't easy, but far too many couples throw in the towel on their relationship prematurely, only to repeat the same dysfunctional patterns in their next relationship. The truth is, most couples are capable of thriving and lasting long term if they're both committed to working on it. Regardless of whether you're in a 50-day or a 50-year relationship, here's how to make relationships actually work:\n\n1. Accept conflict as normal.\n\nPerfection exists only in Hollywood. Disagreements happen. Unless you're embroiled in severe problems (i.e., unfaithfulness, abuse, addictions, legal problems, or violence), don't throw away a relationship because you've hit a rough patch. Trust and commitment deepen as you travel through storms together.\n\n2. Grow yourself up emotionally.\n\nMost people, even very \"good\" people, have some dysfunctional behaviors that are destructive to themselves and others. Some of the most common ones are defensiveness, poor communication skills, and lacking emotional intelligence. You probably intuitively have somewhat of a sense of where your areas for improvement are, and if you don't, try asking for some feedback from your partner, close friends, or even exes. (Yes, depending on where you're at emotionally with them, reconnecting with an ex to talk about your strengths and weaknesses can actually be a very helpful practice.) Don't be afraid to acknowledge that you've got room for growth. Everyone does.\n\n3. Give each other space.\n\n\n\nReset Your Gut\n\nEven people in happy, loving relationships need alone time. Healthy couples are able to spend time away from each other, working on their own goals, spending time with their friends and hobbies, and just doing their own thing. Don't be worried if your partner asks for space or wants some nights to themselves every now and then, and make sure you're also regularly taking time to focus on yourself. You should each be whole people with your own exciting lives, and you're choosing to share those lives with each other.\n\n4. Develop an \"I'm awesome\" attitude.\n\nYou and only you determine your self-worth. Far too many people base their self-worth first on whether they have a partner and later on the success of the relationship they're in. But how you feel about yourself should have nothing to do with your relationship status, nor the whims and moods of your partner. It doesn't matter whether they stay or go or compliment or criticize you. Your self-esteem needs to be like nonstick cookware—a third-party opinion slides right off, whether good or bad.\n\n5. Take care of your own needs.\n\nYou're an adult, not a child. As a result, you call the shots. Need a nap? Take it. Want ice cream? Have some. Want to go to the movies? Enjoy. In partnership, you can ask the other person to help you meet your needs. But, like you, they have their own needs and problems. They may say no. This is not a rejection. Instead, it's an invitation—to be self-reliant or reach out to your community (i.e., friends or family) for help. If you make one person your be-all and end-all, they will resent it. And so will you.\n\n6. Communicate boundaries.\n\nMore relationships die from silence than violence. Do you bite your tongue when you're upset? Do you turn away from bad behavior? Do you nag instead of enforcing consequences? If you act \"compliant\" to keep the peace, you contribute to the inauthenticity of the relationship. Decide to forge a different path: Speak up. Say no. Express your needs. Create a truly open channel of communication with your partner. If you can't be honest without feeling guilty or feeling like it's going to start a big fight, it might not be the right relationship for you.\n\n7. Never reward bad behavior.\n\nPsychology may explain bad behavior, but it doesn't excuse it. Even if you understand why your partner sometimes does hurtful things to you, if they're not trying to change for the better, you need to draw a line. When you continue to spend time with them, laugh, have sex, and otherwise pretend that everything's OK, you're offering positive reinforcement that they don't actually need to change. Set some ground rules. Don't wait around for someone to change if they're not actively working on themselves now; you can't have a relationship with someone's \"potential.\"\n\nRelationships can be like old shoes—we stay in them even when they are no longer functional because they are comfortable. But comfort is rarely an indication of a life well-lived.\n\n8. Heed the wisdom of your internal voice.\n\nWhen your relationship is in crisis, it's natural to go to your friends for advice. But the symphony of opinions can sometimes drown out the only voice that matters—your own. Get quiet. Meditate. Pray. Clear mental space, so you can hear your intuition. Can this relationship be saved? Is it in your best interest? Are you being pushed to grow? Are you truly giving each other what you each need? Your heart will never fail you, so learn to listen.\n\n9. Flood it with affection.\n\nRelationships are supposed to be fun! And joyous, and warm, and filled with laughter and affection. People in long-term relationships tend to forget this over time, and that's why so many couples eventually break up because they believe the \"spark\" is gone.\n\nMake time to play together. Create an atmosphere of levity and positivity when you're together. Speak lovingly to each other, always. Hug each other, cuddle, and hold hands. These small things are what make relationships so wonderful in the first place, and keeping these loving practices alive is key to making a relationship work in the long run.\n\n",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1216502377211375616/activity"
},
{
"type": "Create",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1216501589071876096",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "Godson Romeo, B.A<br /><br />Regardless of what individuals advise you, cutting off ties is an extraordinary method to keep pace in a futile way of life – moving in the blazes of a severed tie is incredible inspiration to work quicker and continue to push forward. Shockingly, at times you need to return and revamp a wrecked extension for the better great. Here are a couple of approaches to revamp a messed up relationship. <br /><br />1. Start a Friendly and Polite Dialog. <br /><br />At the point when you start a discussion, a basic \"Howdy\" or speedy welcome is sufficient. Simply the way that you sent them a message might be sufficient, however, contingent upon how they've hindered you, you may have to likewise specify what your identity is. This is all that requires to be said, and don't utter a word else (or send more than one all out message) until the individual in question reacts, or you will put on a show of being irritating. <br /><br />2. Be Clear About Your Intentions. <br /><br />Once there's a discourse open, use it everything being equal; be open, in advance, and legitimate about what you need. This will motion toward the other party that you regard the person in question and help modify the trust that was recently broken. Never anticipate that anyone should guess what you might be thinking, in light of the fact that the truth is, no one can, regardless of the amount you center around sending contemplations. <br /><br />3. Love is All You Need. <br /><br />The explanation you're modifying a messed up relationship is on the grounds that you either need something or care about the individual. Regardless of whether you need something, center around the other individual, not what you need. In the event that you show that you care about the person in question, the individual will be more responsive to causing you. <br /><br />4. Construct a Bridge, and Get Over It. <br /><br />Drop whatever issues you used to have before – it's not the past any longer. You can talk about the issues you had in your past endeavor at a relationship, yet staying will just exacerbate the situation. Overcome any issues among you, and get over your crack with a briskness. <br /><br />5. Be Honest (In a Nice Way). <br /><br />Continuously be straightforward, in any event, when you oppose this idea. Misdirection might not have broken your relationship, yet it's absolutely not going to fix it. Simply ensure you're neither cautious nor hostile, and in the event that you can't keep it common, shut up. <br /><br />6. Conceptualizing <br /><br />Include the other individual in your endeavors to revamp your relationship. On the off chance that the person is talking, the individual is at any rate keen on hearing what you need to say, put the onus on them and request their commitment. <br /><br />7. Delivery Control. <br /><br />Continuously make sure to disconnect yourself from the outcomes throughout everyday life. On the off chance that you put every one of your eggs into this present individual's container, their dismissal will break you. All things considered, characterize yourself and how you respond, however don't anticipate your optimal outcome. <br /><br />8. Apologize. <br /><br />There are not many clashes in life that can't be settled with an expression of remorse. In any event, it'll offer you a chance to pardon yourself and proceed onward, regardless of whether the other party isn't intrigued. <br /><br />9. Assume Liability. <br /><br />Continuously acknowledge duty, regardless of whether you don't trust you were to blame. The other individual unmistakably trusts you are, and tolerating obligation will help you overcome any barrier between your insights. <br /><br />10. Try not to Push Buttons. <br /><br />Recall that both you and the other party have animosity toward one another (or if nothing else used to). You know there are sure triggers that get to that individual – be a grown-up and try not to press those catches, regardless of how gravely you're enticed. <br /><br />11. Think Positive. <br /><br />It's consistently a smart thought to think positive throughout everyday life. Regardless of whether things don't work out, you can ponder the following experience. Continue to look forward, and you'll ooze certainty, which is alluring to others. This will attract the other individual to ask why the person in question doesn't have a relationship with you. <br /><br />Arrive at My Goal! <br /><br />⌄ Scroll down to keep understanding article ⌄ <br /><br />12. Be Genuine. <br /><br />Continuously be the genuine you, regardless of what occurs. You'd preferably bomb your way over prevail as another person. Try not to profess to be what the other individual needs – it is anything but an opposition, and you'd be shocked at how much trustworthiness will open entryways for you throughout everyday life. <br /><br />13. Authorize Your Boundaries. <br /><br />You have individual limits, and you're making a special effort to not violate other people groups' limits so you merit regard also. Make certain to obligingly and delicately remind the other individual at whatever point they've violated a limit you set up. Yet, be certain it's one you've both recognized exists so you're not erroneously blaming anybody for intersection a line the person in question didn't know was there. <br /><br />14. Continue To direct the Conversation. <br /><br />Regardless of where the discussion goes, attempt to keep it pushing toward your objectives. On the off chance that the discussion is working out positively, welcome the other party to another discussion or meeting later on. Something else, ask that person for whatever it was you reached the person in question for in any case. <br /><br />15. In some cases You Have to Let Go. <br /><br />Regardless of your best aims, there's a possibility the other individual essentially doesn't have any desire to reconnect. In the event that the person in question doesn't react or appear to be forceful, forget about it. There are billions of individuals on the planet, and there's definitely no motivation to squander your energy on one who doesn't care for you. <br /><br />Reconstructing a messed up relationship is troublesome – the two players need to confront the ill will and doubt that divided you in any case. In case you're hoping to remake a wrecked relationship from quite a while ago, reconnect with the individual through text, email, or on the web. On the off chance that the individual in question reacts, there might be interest. If not, you have the conclusion you need to proceed onward.<br />",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1216501589071876096",
"published": "2021-03-10T21:42:59+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "Godson Romeo, B.A\n\nRegardless of what individuals advise you, cutting off ties is an extraordinary method to keep pace in a futile way of life – moving in the blazes of a severed tie is incredible inspiration to work quicker and continue to push forward. Shockingly, at times you need to return and revamp a wrecked extension for the better great. Here are a couple of approaches to revamp a messed up relationship. \n\n1. Start a Friendly and Polite Dialog. \n\nAt the point when you start a discussion, a basic \"Howdy\" or speedy welcome is sufficient. Simply the way that you sent them a message might be sufficient, however, contingent upon how they've hindered you, you may have to likewise specify what your identity is. This is all that requires to be said, and don't utter a word else (or send more than one all out message) until the individual in question reacts, or you will put on a show of being irritating. \n\n2. Be Clear About Your Intentions. \n\nOnce there's a discourse open, use it everything being equal; be open, in advance, and legitimate about what you need. This will motion toward the other party that you regard the person in question and help modify the trust that was recently broken. Never anticipate that anyone should guess what you might be thinking, in light of the fact that the truth is, no one can, regardless of the amount you center around sending contemplations. \n\n3. Love is All You Need. \n\nThe explanation you're modifying a messed up relationship is on the grounds that you either need something or care about the individual. Regardless of whether you need something, center around the other individual, not what you need. In the event that you show that you care about the person in question, the individual will be more responsive to causing you. \n\n4. Construct a Bridge, and Get Over It. \n\nDrop whatever issues you used to have before – it's not the past any longer. You can talk about the issues you had in your past endeavor at a relationship, yet staying will just exacerbate the situation. Overcome any issues among you, and get over your crack with a briskness. \n\n5. Be Honest (In a Nice Way). \n\nContinuously be straightforward, in any event, when you oppose this idea. Misdirection might not have broken your relationship, yet it's absolutely not going to fix it. Simply ensure you're neither cautious nor hostile, and in the event that you can't keep it common, shut up. \n\n6. Conceptualizing \n\nInclude the other individual in your endeavors to revamp your relationship. On the off chance that the person is talking, the individual is at any rate keen on hearing what you need to say, put the onus on them and request their commitment. \n\n7. Delivery Control. \n\nContinuously make sure to disconnect yourself from the outcomes throughout everyday life. On the off chance that you put every one of your eggs into this present individual's container, their dismissal will break you. All things considered, characterize yourself and how you respond, however don't anticipate your optimal outcome. \n\n8. Apologize. \n\nThere are not many clashes in life that can't be settled with an expression of remorse. In any event, it'll offer you a chance to pardon yourself and proceed onward, regardless of whether the other party isn't intrigued. \n\n9. Assume Liability. \n\nContinuously acknowledge duty, regardless of whether you don't trust you were to blame. The other individual unmistakably trusts you are, and tolerating obligation will help you overcome any barrier between your insights. \n\n10. Try not to Push Buttons. \n\nRecall that both you and the other party have animosity toward one another (or if nothing else used to). You know there are sure triggers that get to that individual – be a grown-up and try not to press those catches, regardless of how gravely you're enticed. \n\n11. Think Positive. \n\nIt's consistently a smart thought to think positive throughout everyday life. Regardless of whether things don't work out, you can ponder the following experience. Continue to look forward, and you'll ooze certainty, which is alluring to others. This will attract the other individual to ask why the person in question doesn't have a relationship with you. \n\nArrive at My Goal! \n\n⌄ Scroll down to keep understanding article ⌄ \n\n12. Be Genuine. \n\nContinuously be the genuine you, regardless of what occurs. You'd preferably bomb your way over prevail as another person. Try not to profess to be what the other individual needs – it is anything but an opposition, and you'd be shocked at how much trustworthiness will open entryways for you throughout everyday life. \n\n13. Authorize Your Boundaries. \n\nYou have individual limits, and you're making a special effort to not violate other people groups' limits so you merit regard also. Make certain to obligingly and delicately remind the other individual at whatever point they've violated a limit you set up. Yet, be certain it's one you've both recognized exists so you're not erroneously blaming anybody for intersection a line the person in question didn't know was there. \n\n14. Continue To direct the Conversation. \n\nRegardless of where the discussion goes, attempt to keep it pushing toward your objectives. On the off chance that the discussion is working out positively, welcome the other party to another discussion or meeting later on. Something else, ask that person for whatever it was you reached the person in question for in any case. \n\n15. In some cases You Have to Let Go. \n\nRegardless of your best aims, there's a possibility the other individual essentially doesn't have any desire to reconnect. In the event that the person in question doesn't react or appear to be forceful, forget about it. There are billions of individuals on the planet, and there's definitely no motivation to squander your energy on one who doesn't care for you. \n\nReconstructing a messed up relationship is troublesome – the two players need to confront the ill will and doubt that divided you in any case. In case you're hoping to remake a wrecked relationship from quite a while ago, reconnect with the individual through text, email, or on the web. On the off chance that the individual in question reacts, there might be interest. If not, you have the conclusion you need to proceed onward.\n",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1216501589071876096/activity"
},
{
"type": "Announce",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/602551056588615697/entities/urn:activity:1196484212715409408",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/602551056588615697",
"content": "My latest video on Bitchute: THE HAMBURG SYNDROME (1979) AND COMPARISONS TO THE COVID SCAM<br /> <a href=\"https://www.bitchute.com/video/EJC5js8vpLrj/\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.bitchute.com/video/EJC5js8vpLrj/</a> ",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/602551056588615697/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1196484212715409408",
"published": "2021-01-14T16:01:05+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "My latest video on Bitchute: THE HAMBURG SYNDROME (1979) AND COMPARISONS TO THE COVID SCAM\n https://www.bitchute.com/video/EJC5js8vpLrj/ ",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1196709248567070720/activity",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/602551056588615697",
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
]
},
{
"type": "Announce",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1117369771484774400",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "Click on the blue to have the full view👇👇👇👇<br /><br /><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/p/CBP2-ooHMQH/?igshid=hb3ixggiohje\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.instagram.com/p/CBP2-ooHMQH/?igshid=hb3ixggiohje</a><br /><br />This is my morning paint ",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1117369771484774400",
"published": "2020-06-10T08:28:33+00:00",
"source": {
"content": "Click on the blue to have the full view👇👇👇👇\n\nhttps://www.instagram.com/p/CBP2-ooHMQH/?igshid=hb3ixggiohje\n\nThis is my morning paint ",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1190060499937808384/activity",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
]
},
{
"type": "Announce",
"actor": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"object": {
"type": "Note",
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1139630963479908352",
"attributedTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"content": "<a href=\"https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1139630963479908352\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1139630963479908352</a>",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers",
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354"
],
"tag": [],
"url": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1139630963479908352",
"published": "2020-08-10T18:46:35+00:00",
"inReplyTo": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1139630746330128384",
"source": {
"content": "https://www.minds.com/newsfeed/1139630963479908352",
"mediaType": "text/plain"
}
},
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/entities/urn:activity:1190057706369802240/activity",
"to": [
"https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams#Public"
],
"cc": [
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354",
"https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/followers"
]
}
],
"id": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/outbox",
"partOf": "https://www.minds.com/api/activitypub/users/1116156502739001354/outboxoutbox"
}